tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4690929350463100222.post7328117754912867301..comments2024-03-28T14:48:53.565-07:00Comments on Hard Up Hester.: Going from bad to worseHard up Hesterhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02561421853249973134noreply@blogger.comBlogger14125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4690929350463100222.post-53690063875934966972015-11-09T04:16:10.983-08:002015-11-09T04:16:10.983-08:00I've been through a similar situation this yea...I've been through a similar situation this year of supporting my husband, 2 BiLs & step-daughter through the death of my MiL (although without the in-fighting thankfully) & I fully understand the feeling of "you're looking out for everyone but who's looking out for you?" that you mention. Take care of yourself xxAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4690929350463100222.post-1750213658762835522015-11-05T09:35:51.760-08:002015-11-05T09:35:51.760-08:00We are all supporting you theough here, sending lo...We are all supporting you theough here, sending love n virtual hugs xxfrugal needleshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10021828871354830486noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4690929350463100222.post-2492782106409949972015-11-05T05:54:37.176-08:002015-11-05T05:54:37.176-08:00Really sad that BIL is acting this way....especial...Really sad that BIL is acting this way....especially for FIL. It's a pity how people can act. Hold strong and take care of YOU!Linda Metcalfhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14706004604567190617noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4690929350463100222.post-59258425922140511802015-11-05T04:12:58.411-08:002015-11-05T04:12:58.411-08:00Hope today is a better day for you all. Hope today is a better day for you all. thrift deluxehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12267215022924475298noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4690929350463100222.post-76914783847180190432015-11-05T01:58:24.854-08:002015-11-05T01:58:24.854-08:00Here Here Anonymous! BIL is a bully and is using h...Here Here Anonymous! BIL is a bully and is using his PoA inappropriately. Ask PALS if there is a hospital Social Worker to spell it out.<br />Good Luck Hester.Frugal in Derbyshire https://www.blogger.com/profile/10221169113482164565noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4690929350463100222.post-57655345506241737152015-11-05T01:31:57.072-08:002015-11-05T01:31:57.072-08:00Hello there, I'm Jane. So sorry to hear of the...Hello there, I'm Jane. So sorry to hear of the difficult time you're having. Although BIL2 has power of attorney it does not give him the power to stop immediate family visiting her in hospital or over rule your MIL's wishes if she is capable of making them herself. This is a matter of law and the Court of Protection, which is very clear on the matter, can act on her behalf if need be. She can also withdraw his power of attorney if he isn't acting in her best interests, a simple letter, witnessed, will suffice. I really don't want to add to your difficulties at such a stressful time for you all and hope things settle down for you. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4690929350463100222.post-13274685191069499792015-11-04T18:41:06.610-08:002015-11-04T18:41:06.610-08:00From Margie in Toronto - I feel so sorry for you r...From Margie in Toronto - I feel so sorry for you right now - this situation is so stressful anyway and to have all this added to it is just ridiculous. Bottom line is - MIL wants to see FIL and BIL2 has no right to keep them apart - let them call security! Good luck.<br />Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4690929350463100222.post-71837634185942538472015-11-04T17:08:28.301-08:002015-11-04T17:08:28.301-08:00What is wrong with your BIL? Not only do I feel a...What is wrong with your BIL? Not only do I feel awful for you and your dh, your poor MIL needs calm not this drama.Cherylhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03532160415343676858noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4690929350463100222.post-50789395410258362052015-11-04T14:50:54.751-08:002015-11-04T14:50:54.751-08:00Lots of virtual hugs.
Alex xxLots of virtual hugs.<br /><br />Alex xxAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4690929350463100222.post-69230533246975013162015-11-04T14:24:47.991-08:002015-11-04T14:24:47.991-08:00Hugs. Hugs. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4690929350463100222.post-76943654405338409202015-11-04T14:20:06.092-08:002015-11-04T14:20:06.092-08:00Hugs - sending loads of good vibes. Sybil xxxHugs - sending loads of good vibes. Sybil xxxLyssa Medanahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07350926829113722058noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4690929350463100222.post-7697869310276325122015-11-04T13:36:02.876-08:002015-11-04T13:36:02.876-08:00Cyberhugs to you today and every day you need them...Cyberhugs to you today and every day you need them. CatrionaAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4690929350463100222.post-19901051664869946492015-11-04T13:28:20.185-08:002015-11-04T13:28:20.185-08:00We've got your back, Sista! Hang tight and c...We've got your back, Sista! Hang tight and cry when you need to.<br />JoycrAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4690929350463100222.post-74127599641355522082015-11-04T11:52:42.181-08:002015-11-04T11:52:42.181-08:00Oh Hester, it is good to cry to release the tensio...Oh Hester, it is good to cry to release the tension, families can be horrible, there is always one horrible sibling. Poppypatchworkhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12749159567150084975noreply@blogger.com