Wednesday, 11 November 2015

Funeral & Will

BIL2 is an executor of MIL's will but he is refusing to deal with the solicitor who is the other executor. 
If he continues to refuse he will be removed as an executor.

FIL was confused and booked the wake the day before the funeral, BIL3 has now taken over the arrangements and booked them both on the same day!

FIL's confusion is not helped by him starting on the booze at breakfast time.

FIL is still complaining about being harassed by BIL2 but has decided against having his locks changed, we have suggested he blocks BIL2's number on his mobile phone, he has refused this too.


5 comments:

Lyssa Medana said...

Sending good vibes and hugs. It's an awful time to get through. Good luck getting through to FIL - no-one thinks rationally at this sort of time. I wish I could help. Sybil xxx

Primroses Attic said...

Sending you hugs, such a painful time to get through,You always take it out on your nearest and dearest. Hope you somehow get through without too much more stress.
Rosezeeta.

Anonymous said...

keep strong, you have bee nwonderful and will carry on being so.

Frugal in Derbyshire said...

Crikey it doesn't get any better does it?! I'm beginning to think BIL2 has mental health problems.
At least with the other executor being a solicitor BIL2 won't get away with too much, as he won't be able to bully a solicitor.
Chin up. Hope it gets calmer soon.

kate steeper said...

All will pass...at least thats what my gran used to say . My vile mother tried to make me the executor of her will , i flatly refused and told her to use her solicitor ,her usual response "what a waste of money" waste of money yes but at least there can be no family arguments