Plantpot, I'll look for them online, thanks for that.
My days currently go something like this.
Get up some time between 5 and 6 depending on hubby's shift, get showered, dressed, drop hubby at work, on to DD's to help with the school run.
Go to work until 2 then from work back to DD's to babysit whilst DD is at Dr's/hospital etc. Then help with school run, help with homework, evening meal and bedtime.
Back to work some time between 7 and 10 depending on hubby's shift, collect hubby, cook evening meal, clear up after meal, an hours housework, fall into bed.
Rinse and repeat.
I'm too knackered to do more than organise the most basic of meals, I'm certainly not up to cooking two different meals each night. Hubby is covering extra hours at work as one of the team is having family problems.
And now hubby has had a solicitors letter about his Mum's will, they are suggesting a cost of £3000 to resolve the problems BIL is causing.