FIL has told one BIL that he wants to sell up so all the BIL's can have some money now.
He tried to persuade him to stay put as his current house is set up for his needs.
He told another BIL that he has to sell up as he is being threatened by the nasty BIL. So calls to the solicitor etc. etc.
He told another BIL that he wants to sell up as he can't cope with the memories.
If this is so we are all happy to help him move.