Friday, 22 January 2016

Some people are arseholes

There is a meeting with the solicitors next week regarding MIL's will, the initial costs are £3000+VAT.
Conveyancing to the trusteeship will be another £800+VAT.
This is obviously BIL's ploy, hoping we will be unable to pay the legal fees to protect FIL.
Bang goes any extra mortgage payments for the foreseeable future.


7 comments:

Lyssa Medana said...

hugs. x

Witch Hazel said...

What an idiot he is. I bet aBIL feels you're all in a conspiracy against him! It never ceases to amaze me how people behave when there is a sniff of money about, and how they are always the ones who have been wronged. I'm guessing tne anser is no, but is there any form of mediation that can be tried before all these costs are incurred?
to you.

Witch Hazel said...

That should have said '' to you

Witch Hazel said...

Lol, both of those should have said hugs to you

Marlene jones said...

Can't these cost be taken from the estate, there is always one family member who is as you say an arsehole. My sister is quiet at the moment, which scares us, because we don't know what she is thinking.

Sheila said...

What a dreadful man he is and I am so sorry that he is putting you through this. You do not deserve it.
Sending you hugs-x-

Sooze said...

Sorry to hear you're having to do this....is there no way round it, like Marlene suggested taking the costs from the estate? I don't understand why you would have to pay this money up front, or what it's for. But you're right, some relatives are arseholes when it comes to wills and estates.....we had one in husband's family too.