Thursday, 20 November 2025

Twitchy.

Steve is very twitchy and suspicious, this morning the supermarket delivery wasn't showing on the app, he seemed to think I might have cancelled it.

He hasn't noticed the bags I've packed, they are hidden in my wardrobe.

Out with Cass tomorrow, it will be great to get off site, I'm going a bit stir crazy and just keep thinking/hoping "not long now". Hopefully there may be some more information about my Where Next.


21 comments:

Carol Caldwell said...

I hope it won't be long for you now. The waiting must be awful.

Anonymous said...

I have everything crossed for you and hope that the ‘move’ call comes quickly, take care. Jan in Castle Gresley

Sooze said...

Hoping it happens soon for you, the waiting must be awful.

Anonymous said...

I wish you the best.
Is anyone reading that could start a GiveSendGo or GoFundMe page for her?
I could contribute just a little, and I’m sure other people would also

Anonymous said...

Will keep fingers crossed for you! A very stressful time & exhausting. Do hope you get news soon 💕💕

Damselfly said...

Enjoy your day out with Cass tomorrow! Hoping you hear very soon about your new place and you & Beano have a safe & quiet move.
Stay safe & well!

Chris said...

Praying you find somewhere safe!

Anonymous said...

I am so happy for you honestly the last thing you deserve after all of this is to end up as his carer as he gets older and his health declines or your health declines and then there might not be this choice i have seen it happen

Anonymous said...

Hi, I haven’t commented before but I read each day. I just wanted to say please be careful and cautious for your own safety especially as you get closer to moving out. You are moving forward but Steve is not. He is also losing face. There must be a lot of things going on inside him. Good wishes.

Anonymous said...

I hope things happen for you soon, the wait must be awful. Wishing all good things for you. Carole R.

Nelliegrace said...

It will be a relief to read that you are away from the place and safe.

Anonymous said...

Hi Hester . . It’s great you have so manycontacts wishing you well. We’re all anxious that your husband wil cotton on and do something to circumvent all your plans!! Please be doubly watchful! Best wishes! x

Anonymous said...

Please be doubly careful - husband could somehow cotton on and halt all your plans! So many of us are anxious for you and sending best wishes!

Marg said...

Could you take some things to your daughters as a half way house so that he does not see all that you are taking?

Anonymous said...

I really hope you can get moved asap it must be so stressful for you. Wishing you all the best, you & Beano so deserve better things to come.

Ellen D. said...

Glad you will have a day out with Cass. I hope your move is soon and you stay safe.

Beth Waltz said...

Please exercise extreme caution as the departure date approaches! Perhaps consider placing Beano in a "safe house" during the actual move -- in the home of a trusted friend, or even a vet. I've seen pets become hostages in similar escape scenarios.

shyleigh said...

This is so sad. I remember how happy you and Steve were in the beginning. Sorry it is ending this way and hope your new home is safe and comfortable.

Anonymous said...

Hope you are having a lovely day with your daughter. Even more, I hope that you can move out and move on soon xx

Theresa Y said...

Praying for a safe, fast exit for you and Beano. Hope you can feel the positive energy from across the pond. Be safe.

RunNRose said...

Every day before I check to see if you have posted, I cross my fingers and hope you will say you have escaped that prison you have been living in! Some of the suggestions here are good ones. I've been worrying that Steve would get wise to your plans. Maybe Cass is helping you. There will be some online celebrating when we get the news that you have moved!

In a corner.

If anyone is looking for me I'll be sat in a corner gibbering quietly to my self. For someone who hates moving I'm certainly mad, es...