Tuesday, 16 June 2026

Garden find.

Whilst walking Beano this morning I came across a bundle of twigs, sort of a small branch. I brought it home with me as it's just what I needed to add to area in the garden that I'm hoping to encourage the local hedgehogs to use.  One of my neighbours has lots of twigs in heaps in his garden so I may also ask him for some.

My garden, front and back is lumpy, uneven and covered in grass and stinging nettles.

If I won the lottery (unlikely since I don't buy lottery tickets) then I'd have the entire garden dug over and flattened.

So far I've had a small section dug over and edged by a kind neighbour, I've planted a Hidcote Lavender and Dogwood called Midwinter Fire so far, I will probably add a Mallow and a Rose of Sharon.

There are some annuals that my neighbour gave me, they will fill the spaces until my plants grow bigger

I've also planted some wildflowers in two small areas that were bare of grass.

Sunday, 14 June 2026

Fecking dog

I've just taken Beano out for his last widdle of the day and the little toad took off like a bat out of hell after a passing cat.

The cat cornered and ran for home, Beano attempted to follow the cat but was limited because he was on the lead. 

I was attached to the other end of the lead and Beano then tried to bend my wrist backwards round a fence post.

I'm sure some of the neighbours will have heard my language as I yelled at Beano and cursed the cat.

I have a massive bruise forming and some swelling, goddess knows what it will look like in the morning!

Oh the joys of owning a terrier.

Saturday, 6 June 2026

Working in the garden.

I have a local lady who comes and cuts my grass, I wouldn't go so far as to call it a lawn. Some parts of the grass are a lot higher than others so it's not something I could manage.

I've also, with the help of a neighbour dug a small flower bed in one corner of my garden. I purchased a lavender plant and a dogwood called Midwinter fire.

The same neighbour has just given me a small tray of snapdragons and some other plants.

I'm about to put my shoes on and go and plant them in my flower bed.


Friday, 5 June 2026

Update.

I keep in touch with Steve because I'm part owner of the flat he still lives in.

When he text me to say he was having a colonoscopy I replied by just acknowledging his message. He obviously wasn't particularly happy with my reply but after the procedure sent another message to tell me the results show no cancer but another issue. 

I again acknowledged his message but remembered everyone's advice and DNE. 

He will now receive treatment for whatever the issue is. My daughter has suggested she keeps in touch with him so we will know what is going on without me getting involved.



Thursday, 4 June 2026

Decisions decisions!

Well just one decision really.

Steve  messaged me y'day to tell me he is having another colonoscopy.

I know him well enough to know he will have lied to his Dr about his diet. He will have claimed that he only drinks the occasional lager, he will not admit to drinking 15 -20 cans a day.

He will also claim to eat a balanced diet that includes lots of vegetables, whereas he will be living on spicy chicken wings and eating no fruit or vegetables whatsoever.

Do I contact the surgery and tell them the truth or do I ignore it all and let him deal with the consequences?

Monday, 1 June 2026

I can hear again.

Today was my audiology appointment and I have new hearing aids!

So no more guessing what people are saying to me.

No more nodding and trying to follow conversations.

I'm speaking too quietly so I need to practice getting my volume correct but I'm sure I will get there.

Autumn group tomorrow and the village coffee morning on Wednesday. I was told that the coffee morning was moving from the pub to the village hall but that's not happening now. I think there was a bit of in-fighting between various attendees.

I'm glad as that means I can continue to attend, if it had moved to the village hall I wouldn't be able to attend as I can't take Beano.

I've also had my suspicions confirmed about who was causing some problems within the group. I tend to avoid conflict although it doesn't scare me I'm glad to know I was on the right track.


Tuesday, 26 May 2026

Too hot for Beano.

I don't mind the heat but it does affect my eyesight which is quite scary. I know I will go blind at some point which is a worry but there is no treatment available so all I can do is keep buggering on.

It's too hot for Beano to walk far but unfortunately since he will not go to the toilet in my garden I still have to take him out regularly.

This morning I took him out at 4 o'clock for about an hour, when we got home I went back to bed and slept until just after 7 o'clock when I took him out again for another hour. He will just have to manage with trips to the grass verge outside the bungalow until this evening, when hopefully it will cool down again

Autumn group today, if Beano will walk that far I shall take his cool mat with me to keep him comfortable. I'd happily leave him at home but If he cries it annoys my neighbour so I take him most places with me.


Garden find.

Whilst walking Beano this morning I came across a bundle of twigs, sort of a small branch. I brought it home with me as it's just what I...